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I receive a number of questions from readers and those who listen to my podcast each week. So, I thought I would feature a question and my response in this ezine and upcoming issues.

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Question: "I have no direction in my life. I feel very insecure about not only my life, but what my future holds. Any ideas on how I could feel more secure?"

Answer: Your idea of security is no doubt attached to some person, thing or condition. You might say, "If only I had that person in my life" or "If only I had that job or more money then I would feel secure."

This is an illusion. The more you attach yourself to some person, thing or condition the less secure you actually are because that person, thing or condition can change at any moment and no longer be a part of your conditioned world. Then you will be "insecure" again.

The large majority of people strive for security via more money and things, the better job, bigger house or certain people in their lives. Yet, the only thing that they receive from these striving is more insecurity. As Thoreau once said, "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation."

What is difficult for many people to understand is that it is okay to be uncertain. It is okay "not to know." When you can allow yourself to be unsure - not demand security and diminish your attachments - then you release the pressure of having to be secure. Through this release, you gain understanding of what you "truly" desire in life. Your needs diminish and your wants slowly evaporate. When this understanding finally takes root, you step away from the masses, and become secure.

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"The psychic task which a person can and must set for himself is not to feel secure, but to be able to tolerate insecurities." - Erich Fromm, psychoanalyst, author.

"The more you seek security, the less of it you have." - Brian Tracy, author, speaker.

"The man who looks for security, even in the mind, is like a man who would chop off his limbs in order to have artificial ones which will give him no pain or trouble." - Henry Miller, author, playwright.

"When you have come to the edge of all the light you have and step into the darkness of the unknown, believe that one of the two will happen to you: either you'll find something solid to stand on or you'll be taught how to fly!" - Richard Bach, author of "Jonathan Livingston Seagull."
Bob Garner
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